The "Reload Complete" message is a sign that tModLoader is doing its job. Problems only arise when there are underlying mismatches or technical limitations. By understanding that this issue is almost always caused by mod version differences, configuration mismatches, or the 2-minute server timeout, you can take the correct steps to solve it. The most reliable strategy is for the host to share a mod pack and for all players to join via Steam invites. For larger mod packs, using a keep-alive mod is an essential workaround to avoid the dreaded "Stuck on Joining Server" screen.
Work through these solutions from easiest to most advanced to get back into your multiplayer game. 1. Manual Mod Synchronization (The Best Fix) reload complete joining tmodloader